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7 misinterpretations on pre-wedding counselling/ 婚前輔導7大謬誤

婚前輔導,未接觸過嘅人會尤疑;但做過的則會強烈推薦。
花如此精神金錢於婚禮上,何不為自己及婚姻投資多一點?

  1. 好老土
    其實結婚擺酒都一樣噤老土嘅。
  2. 有問題先要輔導
    有問題故之然要輔導,解決左先結婚,即使真係唔結,總好過婚後才發現不能解決嘅問題。
  3. 有綜教背景
    於香港最早辦婚前輔導的為綜教團體,所以大家有呢個錯覺。
    但後來辦輔導的機構已越來越多,而且部份即使具綜教背景,辦的婚前輔導其實同樣提供給非教徒,過程亦不會含綜教色彩,大家可以多個選擇。
  4. 教堂行禮先要去
    婚前輔導係教徒行禮前的必須步驟,所以先有呢個謬誤。
  5. 有D貴
    平均價錢千多至數錢完不等。
    大家影pre-wedding都影幾輯,平極都過萬埋單。
    為你下半生投資呢幾千蚊,係平係貴你自己judge啦。
  6. 準備結婚先要去
    其實準備投入一段長久關係的couple都可以去。
  7. 借此機會輔導對方
    米以為婚前輔導係借機會去認識對方,其中最大得著,係認識自己。

公教婚前輔導: http://www.cmac.org.hk/tc/services_detail.php?c1id=2
YWCA:  http://fwc.ywca.org.hk/page.aspx?corpname=fwc&i=2267
伯特利:http://bpcc.bethelhk.org/lmel/index.php

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Premaritial counselling, highly recommend by whom took the course, you may still struggle if you have no chance to learn about it.
We put a lot of time and money on the wedding, why don’t we invest a bit more on my marriage?

  1. Cliché
    Frankly, wedding and banquet also kind of cliché.
  2. Need counselling only when you have problem
    Of course you need couselling if you have problem, so that you can walk to the aisle with all things cleared .
  3. Religious background
    Premarital counselling firstly introduced by religious organisations years ago, that’s y people have the interpretation.
    There’s many NGO and private organisations provide the counselling courses now.
    Even provided by religious organisations, they have courses specifically provide to couples with no religious background.
  4. For church ceremony only
    Premarital counselling is a must do step for church ceremony registration.
    But it’s not only for those couples.
  5. A bit pricey
    Cost around thousand to few thousands on average.
    Couples now spent over dozen thousands on pre-wedding photo-shooting,
    please judge if that thousands is value for money for your rest of life.
  6. Only for couples who prepare to get marry
    Actually it’s also suitable to all couples who want to devote to a long term relationship.
  7. Counselling him/her with this chance
    It’s a good chance to know more about yourself, not him/her.

HK Catholic Marriage Advisory Council: http://www.cmac.org.hk/tc/services_detail.php?c1id=2
YWCA:  http://fwc.ywca.org.hk/page.aspx?corpname=fwc&i=2267
Bethel:http://bpcc.bethelhk.org/lmel/index.php